by Rev. J. Michael Hayden
Post Valentine’s Day Sale to Assist Creating True Love
The hype and hope that is Valentine’s Day may bring with it the opposite feelings of what the day is supposed to be all about, especially for individuals not in a relationship as a couple.
For those couples already in relationship it can be a day that does not end up meeting the expectations.
In Western cultures becoming a couple through marriage is something that about 90% of individuals do. The long term success of being in a relationship that stands the test of time is 50% to 60% of those couples. Which is a statistic that is basically just a bit better than flipping a coin.
Key Traits of a Coin Flip Lover
Enmeshed/Boundary Issues – Someone who is not able to have clear and healthy boundaries between their own “stories” and those of another. If could be their birth family of origin, or family through association. Parental figures or siblings could present as needy or controlling, and the person who is enmeshed does not know how to “just say no” in a respectful and loving manner. This “foundation” then is what forms the basis with a lover as it is the only way of being one knows. This trait can also manifest as hiding or running away from the other emotionally or even physically through making sure to be too busy to connect with the other person. The fear of “losing the self” is the driving theme of the relationship. Another way this manifests is to be the controller so that you do not get controlled.
Lack of Sense of Self – Similar to the above but more focused on the internal relationship one has with herself/himself. If an individual is not strong enough to know who they are within their own mental, emotional, and spiritual self, they can not experience where their own health life concerns begin or where they end. Like the above, this can show up as someone who seems easily influenced, over to the other extreme of someone who has the need to be in charge or they fear they will lose everything.
Little Ability to Self Nurture – This trait is that of the person who must have another person in their life to give them what they can’t provide without that person. This trait also shows up as being overly needy as in “If you loved me you would know to do this for me”. This is also a form of control of the other person done through emotional manipulation.
The reality of most relationships, and why it can end up being a coin toss as to if it will stand the test of time, is that most humans have insufficient awareness of who they are being as a person. More specifically in terms of spirituality, who the are as a Soul within these areas of “beingness”.
One tends to look at their life and especially their childhood upbringing and experiences to see how they were “shaped” by outside forces to become who they are as an adult. Very few understand the Soul dynamic of arriving upon Earth to deal with a Soul issue to which they need to restore balance. In other words, for example, having parents who were divorced may have a lot to do with your own Soul requiring you to learn how to heal through that process and have little to do with your parents own issues.
Our personality is not just the combination of all the factors we experience, it is very much about who we are as a person and how we interpret those experiences. Traditional theologians may claim we are a blank slate at birth endowed with certain universal human abilities. We then may become shaped by our external environment either positively or negatively based on the degree we are able to be reinforced to support those inherent abilities.
But from the point of view of Ascension Mastery, it is much more complex. We are also born “hardwired” with issues or biases that are unique to our own makeup that are not within the original purity of our Soul. They are issue that we have “picked up along the way” of being a Soul that lives many lifetimes.
This is why you will see children say very profound things about specific topics that other children have no interest in at all.
So our task as Ascending Souls, is to discover these biases or traits that we came in with, see how they influenced our life and choose if they are issue we desire to bring into a more balanced state or not.
The Divine Masculine and Feminine
That state of being more balances is when our feminine side brings forth that nurturing in most areas of our life so that we feel safe and taken care of even when alone. This requires a balanced masculine side to bring forth the personal strength of will and power of that self so that one is confident and secure in the way they express themselves and conduct themselves to and with others.
Using the Wisdom of Ascended Master Lady Mary Magdalene and her own spiritual mentor Ascended Master Lady Isis, we created an 8-hour seminar series course so that each individual can begin to understand the dynamics of how they as a Soul can regain the Divinity that is the Masculine and Feminine Divine restored to full Union.
There is no better way to be in a balanced relationship with another person than to create that balance within the self first. This is imperative so that the seeming randomness of the “coin toss 50/50 chance” gets removed from your own relationships.
This spiritually channeled Ascension Mastery seminar course will not instantly make you into a perfect partner for your soul mate or twin flame connection as the concepts and energies given require you to continue to allow the deeper understandings to unfold, But we feel they will greatly assist each participant in having the understandings required to make some progress, and to get the support from the higher vibrational spiritual energies within the process.
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